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When will it end? - One person's lack of compassion does not equal another's comfort.
One person's lack of comprehension does not equal another's consent.
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When will it end?
I am making this one entry "public" so that all can see it, and I am screening all responses in cased she wishes to verbally attack me again.

This morning I was so sick my cat was worried. I opened my eyes to see her sitting on the edge of my bed looking concerned, like she was trying to "Heal Me". Maybe it worked because when I finally got up I was feeling the best I have in days.

I know part of my problem is that I’m stressed, and it just keeps coming. Something I failed mention in my previous friends-only post, is that my upset friend also mentioned that X has been claiming I’m withholding not only boxes of Tea she claims were hers... (I remember BUYING tea in the MOM store with her, but I don’t recall her ever *bringing* tea from her house to mine), but in addition she claimed that I have failed to return a very important cat toy.

This is so ridiculous I don’t know where to begin, but I’ll take my best shot.

For those of you with short memories, I am SICK. Sick people fighting chest infections should not be crawling around on the floor searching for imaginary cat toys, never the less I did this, just in case, as I just wanted this to be over.

Besides I totally mopped the room the cats spent most of their time in, moving the furniture as required, and that was before X herself sorted through all the collected cat toys and took the ones she claimed were hers, several of which I bought anyway.

So today I open my mail and find a reply to a comment from X in response to a comment I made in the Journal of agentxs nearly a week ago. Nice try. I’m already aware that agentxs and red_lynx will block us if there are any more fights between us in their journals. It might have even been considered polite, had it not referred to a request for me to "return" something that is not only not here, but has NEVER been in my house in the first place. I sure hope they stick to their word and block her and not me, because I refuse to respond to in their journals

X requests that when I return her boxed foods (which I have already done), which is a complete aside to the fact that they were all boxed foods that I purchased for consumption in my own home anyway, but that I should also “return” something which certainly sounds like something that I’ve had for 10 years and did not give to her in the first place.

X is requesting I "return":
"Persephone's blue round mouse track with the carpet on top"

To be fair, OK, I suppose it is possible that X is merely confused, that in her memory, she confused the “blue round mouse track with the CARDBOARD on top" for some similar toy she owns involving carpet. But I swear no such toy involving carpet has been in my house since we broke up the first of the two times (I’m not even sure it was here the first time, but that seems so long ago now) and I have witnesses dating back ten years who will attest my cardboard topped mouse track has been in my home for many years.

Throughout this ordeal I have refrained from making ANY unfounded accusations, lies, even mere exaggerations in response to her sometimes incomprehensible rants. I’m tired, I’m not having this anymore. I admit, yes in the last few days I found a couple more things she left here and placed them to bring to give to agentxs

Outside of shear vindictiveness I can see of no legitimate reason X continues to (by all reports) berate me in her journal, accusing me of withholding or stealing TEA, CAT TOYS, and various other things, some of which were never hers in the first place, and all of which she could have taken without my even noticing on the night she took all of her stuff. Meanwhile there’s something that should be here that I simply cannot find. Maybe, *maybe* she took it, but I’m not leaping to conclusions or even asking her about it until I’ve given this house a good going over.

Meanwhile she continues to refuse to issue receipts for hundreds of dollars I lent her so she could pay her bills. Where does she get off thinking it is reasonable to accuse me of stealing TEA while clearly showing such a disregard for my property?

And just in case you are wondering, had X the sense to make this latest request in PRIVATE EMAIL, then no, I would not be presenting this publicly now.
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bittercat From: bittercat Date: November 16th, 2004 10:10 pm (UTC) (Link)

Whoa. Stop. Slow down.

Look, I'm going to be blunt here: YOU ARE SICK. YOU NEED TO GET WELL. The best way to put an end to this is to LET IT GO. Just stop responding to her at all. This is STUFF we are talking about here. PHYSICAL, REPLACEABLE THINGS. It is not important enough for you to fret over. The fretting and feeding into her nonsense is only going to make you sicker or just keep you from getting well. We are in flu/pneumonia season. Please, just take care of yourself.

She clearly has no fucking life. If she wants to nickel and dime, let her knickel and dime the wind. I really feel you need to move on. You're a good friend of mine, and this is destroying you.

I feel this woman has done more damage to you in the few months you've known her than C did after HOW many years? Please. I care about you: Let this go.

*hugs*
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